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Which is why self belief is very important. It protects you from all the negativity that comes from inside and outside your world. Because when you become a parent a lot of people tell you to do this or that. You should just know that those people do not understand the complexities and nuances of your world. Which is why it is very easy for them to pass remarks about the way you live your life. But in all honesty you should know that these people hardly know anything about you as a parent. Since there are a lot of things that even you haven't figured out. The way we perceive things and the way we interact with them are a testament to us as people. Which is why when people tell you what kind of a person you should be. It means their perspective about you has some flaws in it. They are not very comfortable to look at you beyond, their perspective of you.