You see your partners through new eyes-they’re a parent now, too. They dote on and love our babies, care for us through the hormonal roller coaster that is postpartum, and step up in ways perhaps we have never imagined!

As mothers, we often carry a huge mental load when it comes to looking after, nourishing, and raising babies, and running a household. It can feel heavy, burdensome, and at times, overwhelming. That can often lead to those feelings of resentment.

Resentment for their (relative) freedom, the physical birth they didn’t have to endure, the extra sleep they might get, or even the fact that we’re going so dang touched out…and somehow, they still want physical affection from us.

So what can you do about it?

One simple thing: communicate.

Share how you’re feeling. It’s as simple as that. It may not make the resentment go away overnight, but openly discussing how you feel is a great place to start as you work toward practical solutions that may help you feel supported.

We know it’s very hard for you. This new season is the wildest ride of your life and it’s frustrating when you feel like you’re steering the ship 99% of the time. So having those honest conversations is SO important.

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