Which is why even if they do their best they don't feel fulfilled. The standards are even higher when it comes to motherhood. Mothers are supposed to be perfect examples for their kids.
In the long term this mentality is damaging for not only the mother but also their child. Because if you do not give yourself the scope of making mistakes. How are you going to grow? Not to mention perfectionism is also one of the biggest reasons why people burnout. Handling burnouts as a mother is all the more difficult. Since you are responsible for your child's wellbeing.
One of the biggest obstacles that perfectionism brings to the table is the lack of consistency. So if you want to be consistent in anything. You don't have to hold on to everything so tightly. Sometimes going with the flow is just as effective