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a new life is being brought  into existence, although these changes are exciting. We cannot deny that parents are not the only ones who experience huge changes in their lives. Especially when you already have a child.  It's immensely difficult for them to cope up with the idea of sharing their parents. In fact in some cases this can trigger anxiety and foster a sense of dread in your firstborn’s mind.

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To be honest a lot of it is natural, their feelings are valid. but at the same time it is the parent’s responsibility to put their mind at ease. In fact you can turn this insecurity in your child into a bonding experience between your family. because when you reassure your child that you are there for them. they feel safe to express their emotions around you. This will not only help the child cope up, but also build strong trust between you and them. It is very important for parents to hear their children out. so that their intrusive thoughts don't turn into insecurity. If possible then involve your child in the whole process. because here’s the thing, if they are a part of your journey, then they bond with their sibling even before they’re born. This will bring a sense of protectiveness and empathy in your child. so while you're already growing a child in your womb or adopting them. You are also teaching your first born important life values like sharing, empathy and love. although not all the kids react the same, when they get to know they have a sibling. but in case they are not very happy with it. just know that there is nothing wrong with your child. They are just scared of the change they might face. so rather than getting upset about it. you can comfort your child and show them how loved they are. just know that everyone involved is as human as you are, and honestly that's a relief.