Because technically you and your kids are from different generations. Generation gap isn't naturally a bad thing but it does come with its own woes. One of them being lack of proper communication.

Even if you live in the same house with your kid it is very natural for you all to not connect that much. Because both of you come from different generations. So the topic of interest in conversation varies drastically. In this situation you can always try to build a bridge between you and them.

Or in fact find a common hobby or interest. That brings you and your children together. In case of clashes and misunderstandings you can try not to lash out on them. Teach them that there can be a peaceful way out of a conflict. Wherein their feelings are as validated as yours.

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