Parenthood is a beautiful journey, but there are some challenges that they face. There are a variety of things that new parents argue about. These things can be dealt with a little bit of advice. Some of the things that the new parents argue about:

• Let them be, they’ll be fine

When to wrap them in cotton wool and when to allow them to take risks – it’s a daily tightrope all new parents walk. If both of you are disagreeing on a particular thing try to understand the thing from the other’s perspective. If you are not able to do so, then take advice from someone reliable (family members, friends, relatives, etc).

• I’ve had less sleep than you have

This is the worst competition that parents have. You should put aside the feelings of resentment and plan your day in such a way that both of you get to sleep and take some time for self-care.

• I thought you were watching them

Blaming each other results in more conflicts. Couples who support each other result in better parenting.

• You’re just at home all day, I have to work

Most of the partners think about this thing, and some of them have even dared to say that. With a new baby at home, both partners face new pressures from time to time. According to the research dividing up the household work results in better parenting experiences. Both partners can sit down and make a list of the work that needs to be done, and then they can divide the work accordingly.

• It would be better if we did sleep training/co-sleeping/controlled crying

Almost, all couples argue about this topic. First of all, they should look at the pros and cons of leaving a baby to cry and sleep training, and then decide what is best for their family.

• Why are you feeding her that rubbish?

The topic of baby weaning and feeding is as sensitive as sleeping. Parents should read about the pros and cons of the baby warning and practical tips for starting solid food on a budget.

Having a baby means so many new potential flare-ups. And, of course, you’ve both had very little sleep. So don’t be too hard on yourself, or your partner, as you’re bound to argue a bit. Sometimes, it can even be healthy.

Try to deal with conflict constructively. You could start with identifying the problem by listening to each other and talking it over.

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