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Which is why when a lot of people decide to become mothers carry the same image of a mother in their head. And when they don't fit into the box they have created, they start panicking. This is not said to blame those people. Because everyone can have assumptions or unrealistic expectations in the beginning. But when they are put in a similar situation. They realise they are also human. And it actually takes a lot to become perfect. In fact even if they do everything they can, perfection is still something they won't be able to achieve. This is why it is very important for you to manage your expectations at the beginning of something and give yourself grace when you make mistakes. Because you are human and honestly you are doing the best you can. All you can do to be better is to be kinder to yourself while being mindful of the life you are leading with your child.